14 March 2021

Not My Fault – How to Deal With Other Drivers

Have you ever been in the situation where you encountered an angry motorist? It’s never an easy situation to deal with - and less so if they are the driver at fault. So if you are ever in the situation where you are not at fault and dealing with an aggressive driver then these tips are for you!

Remember that if you’re not at fault then you’re the innocent driver and you don't deserve to deal with aggressive drivers - however, it’s important to keep your own cool! Here are some tips on how to deal with other drivers, especially if they are being aggressive.

Remain calm and keep your cool

It’s always a good idea to remain calm - even if confronted with aggression. Even not at fault drivers have to deal with aggression from the at fault party - but it’s all about the way you handle it. If the other driver gets agitated or aggressive towards you, it’s important to take a breath and not get involved. 

Gather as many details as possible

While it may not always be the easiest thing to gather information from an aggressive driver, there are a few tips and tricks that you can try without escalating the situation further. You can easily take note of the at fault driver’s number plate number and car make/model. Take note of the drivers appearance and, if relevant, if there is any possibility of intoxication. It’s always a good idea to take photos of the accident scene, the cars and the damage, but if you’re confronted with an aggressive driver, it’s important to take care. Be sure to make note of all of the important details such as what happened, the position of the cars and any other relevant information.

Call for help if you need it!

If the other driver is refusing to exchange their details or they become too aggressive and you feel threatened, then remember you can call the police to assist you. It’s important to remain calm and ask for their assistance at the accident scene./p>

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For practical next steps while responsibility is being assessed, read our guide to preparing an insurance claim and learn about not-at-fault replacement car arrangements.

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Firstly, understand that getting upset is natural, but taking a deep breath will help you make better decisions. Examine your car thoroughly and document any visible damage, taking multiple photos from different angles, including close-ups of dents, scratches or broken parts, and capturing the surrounding area, such as road signs and markings, for context.

Next, see if you can locate the driver responsible. Sometimes, people leave a note with their contact information and insurance details. If there’s no note, look for witnesses nearby who may have seen what happened. You can also check for CCTV from nearby businesses, homes or on the street, as some areas have coverage. If you’re unsure, consider contacting the local council to find out whether cameras are in place that might have captured the accident.

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If your car insurer happens to find information about the at-fault driver and is able to have them lodge a claim so the costs of the damage are recoverable, you can contact Carbiz for a replacement car while your car is being repaired or until it’s been deemed a total loss. This ensures you’re not left without a car during this time, giving you peace of mind and the ability to keep your life moving.

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When an insurer declares a car a write-off, it has assessed the vehicle as a total loss under the policy. The damage may make repairs unsafe, or the cost of repairing the car may make a repair uneconomical. A write-off does not always mean the car is visibly destroyed.

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The assessment can take account of the vehicle's value, repair costs, salvage value and the policy terms. There is no single repair-cost percentage that determines every write-off across Australia. Ask the insurer for its assessment and the basis for its decision.

A total-loss insurance decision and a vehicle's written-off registration category are related but different matters. Whether a car can return to the road depends on the damage classification and the rules of the relevant state or territory.

Statutory and repairable write-offs

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If you need a replacement vehicle, tell Carbiz that your car has been declared a write-off. Eligibility, vehicle availability, the hire period and the terms of the agreement need to be confirmed for your circumstances. A write-off does not automatically entitle everyone to unlimited hire.

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